itisthefunpolice:

appropriately-inappropriate:

gcdk:

cottagelore:

blackgoatofthewoodz-deactivated:

Please don’t make me read your obvious sexual fantasies

to this anon, and every other creepy anon message that you also sent:

this is 100% sexual harassment and you are advocating for sexual coercion and something that is called rape by deception. you’re hiding behind anon because you’re fully aware of that, though. stop harassing lesbians, stop typing out your rape-by-deception fantasies, stop acting like the natural sexual boundaries of lesbians are something that you can erode away if you just try hard enough.

Imagine taking a woman home from a bar. You get home, you’re getting hot and heavy and she starts fingerblasting like you’ve never experienced before. It’s awesome, you love it, you’re having a great time. Then you reach down to give her the same treatment and discover he is a man who lied to you. You now have an angry, horny and indignant man in your house and you feel violated. He just had his fingers inside you. He starts to cry and yell and you just want him to be a million miles away from you. But you’re in your own home and he won’t leave. He’s calling you names like transphobe and terf and Nazi and you’re not sure if he’s going to rape you or beat you up.

Seems a bit more realistic, no? And that’s if you’re talking about the tiny minority of transwomen who pass.

It’s as creepy as men wanting to rape sleeping women. “When she wakes up she’ll like it!” “When she realises I have a penis she’ll like it” No. The consent to sex was based on the available information.

Bait-and-switch is not sexy.

It’s actually a felony called rape by deception.

This reminds me of the “boy ticks girl into thinking he’s someone else in order to sleep with her” trope. For those of you who are unfamiliar it goes something like this:

A (nerdy) boy wears a costume or sneaks into a (hot) girl’s room in the dark. She can’t tell who he is so she assumes it’s her (jock) boyfriend. The (nerdy) boy rapes her and she (again, still thinking this is her boyfriend) declares it the best sex of her life. How it ends varries, the (nerdy) boy may reveal his true identity and get the girl or she may be mortified. The (nerdy) boy may also never be revealed.

Notice how I said he rapes her, because that’s what that is, rape by deception. It’s sex you can’t consent to because someone is withholding information that they know might change your mind.

These “but what if” situations are just a “woke” telling of the same story, a man’s fantasy of tricking a woman he knows wouldn’t say yes into being with him, a rape fantasy.